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What Should I Do with My Life?
I have two job offers, one from a respected company for a job doing work I’m passionate about, but with terribly unpleasant co-workers who have no team spirit, and the other from a so-so company offering a job I somewhat like but with people I thoroughly enjoy. The compensation is about the same, so what do I do?

You ask yourself five simple questions and see where the answers take you. At least, that’s what we suggest whenever someone writes and, like you, basically says: “With all the choices out there, how in the world do I possibly figure out what job is right for me?” Now, we’re not claiming this process will make your decision any easier. You face a common quandary that can strike people at almost any stage of their careers. But in the end, whatever you choose to do after this exercise, you should have a clearer sense of why you’re doing it.

The questions that follow are in no particular order. They all count in somewhat equal degrees. We’ll begin with the question that concerns something you already mention--people--since, to our minds, success and happiness at work start with your team.

Will the new job be filled with co-workers who share my sensibilities, or will I have to zone out or fake it to get along? The key word here is "sensibilities," those values, behaviors, and personality traits that make you feel, well, like you're among kindred spirits. If you share sensibilities with your co-workers, you tend to work at the same pace, for instance, confront each other and tough issues with the same level of intensity (or lack thereof), and laugh the same amount at meetings, often at the same jokes. We’re not saying people with shared sensibilities are all alike, but they pretty much all like one another.

Will the new job stretch my mind and build my skills, and otherwise take me out of my comfort zone, or am I entering at the top of my game?
Sure, it’s appealing to join a company where you’re the smart­est person in the room—for a while. In time, though, most people start to feel the downside of being the resident expert, namely boredom and career stall. There is risk, of course, in taking a job where you can blow it. But beware of any job that promises to be a layup. It will, ultimately, make you want to lie down—never a good career move!

Will the new job open or close doors for me should I ever leave?
Some companies are so respected for their training programs or hiring standards that they bestow a kind of golden halo on their employees—consulting firm McKinsey is a good example; others are Microsoft and Johnson & Johnson. Other jobs will keep your options open because they happen to be in thriving industries with promising economics (as opposed to, say, the airlines or publishing). Obviously, we’re not suggesting you lunge for any job at Google or Genentech, just that you think twice about taking a job where the day after tomorrow seems tenuous.

Will the new job turn my crank, touch my soul, and give me meaning?
You should never take a job based just on where it might take you, unless it’s a place you really want to go. We’re talking about job content, what you do all day. If that actual work—be it selling a house, designing a medical device, creating an advertising campaign, or whatever—doesn’t seem exciting and important to you, it doesn’t make any difference if the company or industry is on fire. You won’t be, ever. That’s no life.

Who am I making happy by taking this job, and am I O.K. with that bargain?
This final question concerns an emotional dynamic we call ownership. Very few of us have the freedom to make decisions without considering the needs of other “constituents.” We all know people who have passed up great jobs because of the impact on their families and people who have taken less-than-great jobs for the same reason. Such choices are part of life. But in making yours, we’d advise you to be clear on why you are taking any given job. And make peace with the trade-offs involved.

As for your immediate decision: It seems the first job gives you great opportunity, options, and work content. It flunks on people and appears neutral on ownership. There’s really no wrong choice here—just your own to understand.


This question and answer originally appeared in Business Week magazine on May 28, 2007.

priyanka
10/10/2008 9:47 AM

it's beautiful

 
Prabakar
11/6/2008 9:03 AM

Good One.. Needed for everyone who thinks of changing their jobs....

 
Joan Brennan RNMS
11/6/2008 8:23 PM

How are you both? I am the nurse who gave a flu shot to you last year and we talked of about some career stuff and about your new happiness with your wife. I am happy for you. I would like to know what you think of Architecture as a career today. I did not get into this but from the age of 25 I have wanted to do this but was somehow afraid to do it because I did not feel I could do this. Time is running out and I need some advice. By the way I still stand by my comment that you two make a nice couple.

 
Youri Hiddes
11/12/2008 10:20 AM

Jack, I agree with some of the things you are saying but especially the theme around being different than others in the market. This differentiation comes from a close understanding of the industry and your strong customers. What I never seem to understand in people is their need to want to copy other people's succes instead of doing what man is born to do, Achieve greatness or have their name in the history books as we all share mortality. Making money is simple but not for all those reading 5 million books, you can't teach logics. Thanks,

 
Queennet
11/27/2008 10:08 AM

How are you both? this is very good.

 
Ajayi Olatayo
12/15/2008 5:52 AM

This entity in question knows what is good for him.Only him can clearly explain his ultimate motivation.His definatioin of a fufilling career will end up influencing the decision he makes.Regards.

 
Lai
1/27/2009 9:35 AM

I personally agree that the first job's best choice. Takin' the first job expands knowledge of interest, and experiences the "real" office politics in which one will be forced to learn managing, directly or indirectly, relationship with other people. The second job is not gonna be contributing any good. One'd be trapped in long-term complacency and stagnancy.

 
Elisha Oduor
2/5/2009 2:41 AM

Hi there, I am in Kenya and we have your articles published in one of our local newspapaers - the daily Nation Tuesdays pull out. I think you guyz are a great help. My situation is thus. I work for an organization that helps orphans and vulnerable children access rights to education health care and psychosocial wellbeing. the organization is centred on promoting awareness of rights. I am responsible for M & E in the organization and there is another collegue who is in charge of coordinting activities in the field. Some time back, he had been having a hard time in the field and I offered to help him for a while. However, I have been assigned some tasks which are community activities and as we cary on, I still see more of such duties coming my way to the point that I cannot focus on my own job and I now have a huge backlag of my M & E tasks. I have asked my boss to help clarify my job description but she says that with the changes going on in the organization she cant help me and that everyone is affected. We were due have evaluation talks this year but couldn't because she couldn't make it to the office and I resently sent her an email and she hasn't replied. With these experiences, I was thinking of looking for another job. please advice.

 
Prasenjeet Mookerjee
8/13/2009 4:24 AM

Thanks a lot for this eye opener - I am perpetually in dilemma while choosing the 'right' kind of job.

 
Nagaraj
10/16/2009 8:59 AM

Great. Good eye opener

 
 
     
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